Sexual continence

When we talking about the tantra massage we mentioned a concept ‘sexual continence’, so what is sexual continence and what is the effect of this erotic massage and sexual continence?

The Oriental tradition speaks about the concept of sexual continence, describing its meaning and offering means to achieve it. To be sexually continent means to have perfect control over the sexual energy, so that it is guided at will within one’s being.

For men, it means not to ejaculate unless the conception of a child is wanted; for women, it means to prevent the explosive discharge of sexual fluids related to an orgasm, as well as to completely sublimate the menstruation. Moreover, the energy that is thus preserved inside the body should be directed upwards, towards the higher energy centers of the being, and become a precious nourishment which will revive, expand, and enhance their activity – in other words, all the levels of one’s being, all aspects of life will improve, allowing the person to go from mere survival to a higher and fulfilled way of living.

The key aspect related to sexual continence is the fact that orgasm and ejaculation are two separate things. Practice will allow the awareness of the distinction between these two and gradually enable more and more as well as deeper states of orgasm. For men especially, it may require patience and persevering exercise in order to achieve perfect control over the sexual energy, but the effects (like the happiness of the woman in their arms in addition to the deep and intense orgasms) make all the effort worth-while. Women are more inclined to naturally practice sexual continence during love-making. However to achieve perfect sexual continence and experience intense orgasms practice will help too.

If you are interested in tantra massage, you can learn more about tantra massage and sexual continence in London Tantric Massage Guide